It Is Important To Watch Who You're Around

One thing underestimated by us at times is the importance of the people we keep around us. The importance of the people we trust with things and importance of who we get advice and support from. It is important to know people's intentions towards us and what exactly they are seeking from us. One thing I have realized is just because someone is around us doesn't mean they are good for us. People may smile in your face and wish the worst for you. That is part of life, and we must know when to cut those people out of our lives.

There is a term "Everybody Can't Go" and that is nothing but the truth. We can't bring everyone with us, and we must be observant. These days observing people, their behavior and character goes a long way. People will slowly wish on your downfall and those are the people you don't need to be around. The crazy thing about this is it may sometimes be family in this position. The People you feel like you can trust and are supposed to always be there for you are not there when you need it. One thing I have learned about life is not to expect anything from anyone.

No matter what everyone has their own things going on and has their own lives they are living. It is wrong to expect anyone to put their lives on hold just to serve your needs. Everyone must put themselves first and that applies to us too. We can't be the best versions of ourselves if we don't take care of us first. We must find a way to let people go and that is okay. Not everyone is meant to be there forever and no matter how hard it is letting go may be the right thing to do. We deserve to have people we can pour into and vice versa. We deserve people we know will pick us up when we're down and not bring us down some more. Think of the people in your life and determine what they bring or add to your life. You must decide if there is more harm than good having them in your life and proceed from there.